Amidst all the rallying for support, the seemingly genuine intention to solicit help- many of us blame each other, judge one another and resort to bickering and mockery especially in social media networks. If you are truly set out to help, remember that actual help is more effective than flowery words. This false sense of national pride should stop. True concern lies in silent actual responses to the immediate needs of those who are affected. Stop blaming government officials, placing bad comments on the response time of volunteers or even commenting on unrelated content posts of individuals in their own accounts. This is not about us, its about our thousands of brothers and sisters who need our help. Show your true Pinoy pride. Love despite of, care refardless of.